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Surveying the weather in the late afternoon. Photo: Jeff Hirsch.
January 3, 2013. It is snowing and very cold as I sit down to write this at 7:30 on Thursday night. The weathermap shows a huge storm that the forecasters are predicting. Of late these huge ones have somehow managed to skirt or rush by New York City. Whether that happened or not will be obvious by the time you read this Diary.

The last week: The moving truck across the avenue waiting to pick up or deliver. Moving trucks are not infrequent in this part of town. I’d never seen this one before.
New Year's Eve day, the UPS man is back to pick up the returns and the Christmas goods. A neighbor takes her daily power walk to get in shape for the evening coming up.
Sunset on Monday, the day before New Year's Eve. Red sky at night, sailors' delight ...
I took this picture to send to my friend Schulenberg in California who always sends me pictures of his beautiful garden outside his door. The lemons on the bottom left are relics. In the cachepot is a metal pail with soil and something to plant -- a Christmas gift. Then there's the orchid. I don't know its name but a friend of mine who lives out East but comes in once a week, grows them, rescues them, fosters them. He brought this as a Christmas gift. When it's run its course, I will return it and he will care for it until its next bloom. It's hard to see in this picture because in the background is a large fern that I kept on the terrace in the warm weather. I'm hoping to keep it going until the next time. And the small blue painting on the books is Paige Peterson's view in East Hampton. To the right beyond are some roses I bought for my New Year's Eve drinks with old friends. In the frame to the right of the roses is a Horst portrait of Dorothy Hirshon, whom I write about in this Diary. To the immediate left is a plant I rescued from the laundry room about eight years ago. It's never been brilliant but it's been moving. The white pads are for...you got it...the dawns when Dave fails to take them out.
I love these two. I'm drawing a blank: what are they called? They like most weather but not this kind, so they're in for the duration. I love the way they change color with the Sun.
5 PM Thursday night, a blizzard predicted to arrive soon.Same time, looking north.
6 PM. Snow.
8 PM. Accumulating. Very cold out.
Same time looking north.
10 PM looking south, more accumulation.Same time looking north. The cabs are beginning to crawl along the avenue.
We got a lot of messages yesterday from readers who enjoyed the piece on the Society of New York in the 1930s (What a Swell Party it Was!). I wrote it back in 1994 for Quest. In those days I was writing a feature and a Diary every month. Re-reading I was surprised how much I enjoyed it, if you'll excuse my fall from humility. It had a freshness that had its charm.

I recalled the circumstances. I wrote it because I needed a feature to earn my check, and often I didn’t know what to write.

I happened to see the Willamauz illustration. It reminded me of my friend Dorothy Hirshon. Dorothy Hart Hearst Paley Hirshon, a Beverly Hills girl from early in the last century who went out into the great big world as a late teenager and her life was a banquet. Possessing great American beauty, fresh charm, great style, intense curiosity and a way of getting around that defies anything I ever knew before.

A Horst photograph of Dorothy, then Dorothy Paley in her early thirties.
I realized that she actually wrote this piece. It was at the time when I saw her most frequently (she died suddenly in 1999, two weeks before her 90th birthday). We’d met only a few years before when she was a source for a project I was working on, and we were both interested in knowing each other. It was one of those things, but something that happened frequently with Dorothy who was then in her eighties and still possessing that “allure.”

So I showed her the illustration and told her I was thinking of writing something about the nightlife of New York in that era now remembered for its glamour more than the Great Depression. Depression is what they were feeling and Glamour was how they were lifting their spirits. Dorothy remembered it all. She was married to William Paley, the CBS founder, during that decade, having come from an earlier marriage to Jack Hearst, one of William Randolph Heart’s sons. Mr. Paley had a natural fondness for cuckolding the wives and women of powerful men, and Dorothy was the prize of prizes.

Anyway, all those years later, back in 1994, she remembered the painting and even knew Willamauz, who coincidentally had lived nearby. Then she’d tell me about it all. Reading through this piece I wrote, I see that a good deal of it is what she told me. She was one of those people who was a writer by sensibility, and a photographer, although she never engaged in either.

That’s how I knew that fantastically minor detail about the dogs that the coatcheck kept for the Ladies Who Lunched at The Colony. When she finished, I could see it and almost hear it. Dorothy loved dogs, incidentally; always had a lot of them. Strays, all.

The energy of the piece which impressed me in the re-reading 20 years later is also Dorothy’s. Very often I still think of her in my travels about the city and this world. She always had an answer that led to more. In her first marriage she was unsurprisingly admired by old W.R. who often used to take her down to Duveen Brothers (on 55th and Fifth where Abercrombie sells a different kind of art). She could recount the experience of Lord Duveen operating. Economically but thoroughly with a couple of observation. You felt like you were there with Dorothy.
This is my favorite shot of Dorothy. She must have been in her early to mid-fifties, had had all three husbands. The dog in the background is the personality signature. She went great lengths at times to rescue the trod upon mutts, had many. Cats too. Same thing. They all worshipped her.
Today in the last Retrospective installment in our holiday week we’re running Mary Hilliard’s photographs of Malcolm Forbes’ 70th Birthday Celebration in Morocco in 1989 (Part 1 and Part II).

He was born in Brooklyn in August 19, 1919. Lawrenceville and Princeton followed. His father BC Forbes had created the magazine of the same name. He was highly regarded in the world of American finance, and an influence. The son, any son would have a hard time beating that one.

Malcolm Forbes (with Elizabeth Taylor) as he prepares for his party taking place the evening of.
As a young man, Malcolm dabbled in politics (ran for the Governorship of New Jersey in his early 30s). When he was 38, his father, the Patriarch, died and Malcolm committed himself to the business. His brother died seven years later and he became The Man.

He was obviously an intelligent, thinking, creative man. But his genius that is reflected even in Mary’s photographs, was what today we call Marketing.

Back in Malcolm Forbes’ day they were called flacks, promoters, publicists, even carny barkers. The best of them like Edward Bernays, professionally founded the public relations companies, and the advertising agencies. And then there were these stand-alone types. Malcolm Forbes was one of those.

He came to the fore of celebrity through his ownership of Forbes. Whereas BC Forbes was seriously serious, son was took a lighter, flashier road. He amused his audience by flaunting the wealth his magazine brought him. In no way did it diminish his own stature with anyone.

The circulation grew and grew. It was a logical logistic. His private plane was called Capitalist Tool. Everybody loved it. The yachts were called Highlander (each succeeding one was bigger).

He lived high, wide and handsome, collected great art, owned a chateau in France, a mansion in New Jersey, acquired an enormous collection of Faberge and also Harley-Davidsons. He even created the Forbes 400 List which today has become list of (albeit questionable) prestige.

Later that evening ...
He was a rich man’s dream of being a rich man with a public image of being smart, shrewd, cool and hail-fellow-well-met. I don’t doubt that he was ... in some ways ... all those things. And not. That kind of personal magnitude has its downside in delusion no matter who possesses it.

So in the year 1989, he decided to throw a 70th birthday party. He rented a palace in Tangier, Elizabeth Taylor was his co-host. He chartered a 747, a DC-8 and a Concorde to transport his 800 guests from around the world including bankers and princes and prime ministers, all kinds of famous and befortuned (as well as lots of CEOs). Everything, the entertainment, the food, the Guests, was appallingly impressive to not only the guests but to the world watching through the emerging media.

Because it was more of that special Malcolm marketing: having fun with your money – the dream of a well-fed culture.

It was a great success, the party; and Mr. Forbes died of a heart attack the following year. A well executed and brilliant swan song of personal grandeur.
 

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