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Subway searching. 3:00 PM. Photo: Jeffrey Hirsch.
Tuesday, July 30, 2013. Yesterday was a beautiful, sunny Summer day in New York.

I never take vacations. I don’t say that to boast. I think it’s the conditioning of my proletarian Congregationalist conditioning as a kid. Word hard or perish. For many it would probably seem pathetic. They may be right. Or, they may be wrong. Furthermore, a writer is always challenged to find a way to earn a living.

However, these past few weeks have been a kind of vacation for me. A summer vacation. In thinking about it, I realized, ironically it was because of the heat. New Yorkers stayed home as much as they could, and inside. Those who could left town (and got the same thing wherever they went in the Northeast corridor). Aside from occasionally going out to an early dinner, I had more time. To read. All pleasure, nothing challenging.

Click to order"I Told You So."
This past weekend I read“I Told You So; Gore Vidal Talks Politics/Interviews with Jon Wiener.”

The opening page after the copyright page contained the quote of Gore: “The four most beautiful words in our common language: I told you so.” The blurb on the cover has a quote by Dick Cavett: “Best talker since Oscar Wilde.”

Although Mr. Cavett couldn’t have been around when Wilde was propounding his poetic wit for any and all to listen to. I never imagined what that would have been like until I read Cavett’s quote. Because Gore Vidal is endlessly interesting on a number of levels.

The only problem I have with his interviews is there are times when I think he thinks he knows everything. Then there I times when I think he knows everything too, comparing him to myself who knows little if anything. So it’s a good problem.

The book is four or five interviews, conducted with the man at various community or university auditoriums. The subjects touched upon are politics, history, historical figures, Hollywood figures, scandals and fiascos. He fills you in where you probably never had been. He is impressively knowledgeable about many things, especially historical characters down through the ages. The good part about that message is Keep Reading.

So I did. If you like Gore Vidal, you will not be disappointed. If you don’t like Gore Vidal, you shouldn’t waste your time. When we read with rancor we deprive ourselves of truth.

Then after the Vidal interviews — it was a quick read, a very nice little book; like watching it on TV with no noise in the room — after that one I picked up the new “My Lunches with Orson; Conversations between Henry Jaglom and Orson Welles.” Edited by Peter Biskind. If you’re a fan or an historian of movie lore, or even if you just like watching those great old movies on TCM. Like a compulsive habit; buy this book.

Orson Welles at table. I once saw him there. He was the size of the table — round table — sitting in a tiny nook of a private room, separated from public view by a curtain in the old Ma Maison on Beverly Boulevard. Dressed all in black, vast in size, somewhat darkly menacing yet oddly sorrowful in presence, it was almost like Hollywood noir come to life; “The Third Man” sixty years later.  I moved along that day I saw him, knowing I wasn’t supposed to be there.
Gore Vidal.
Click to order“My Lunches with Orson."
Henry Jaglom was there and Welles let him record their conversations. They were compiled into an interview and that was mentioned and understood by both parties. Entirely a Q & A. A very quick read of course — again like watching a great docu about the business of Show and Hollywood.

Both parties knew that a good interview is a good conversation. So that’s what we get. That’s where all the stuff comes out when you’re talking to an actor or an artist.

Welles loved to talk, loved to reminisce, to recount the era, the personalities, the likes and the loathings. He’s witty and fun and smart and yet obviously at the same time very vulnerable to his ultimate condition. The latter was irrelevant when Welles had the floor and the attention. The wunderkind, now emeritus, took over.

As you may know, Vidal and Welles were both charming conversationalists as well as very bright, sharp and intelligent. They apparently shared many of the same attitudes toward universal questions. They did meet but it seems that it didn’t develop into a great friendship. Although, after reading the two back to back, I could only imagine would have made a highly fascinating duo of an interview about their worlds — literature, film, theatre and politics. Now and forever. But it may also be the room wasn’t big enough for the two of them together.
October 30, 1938, Orson Welles in the Mercury Radio Theatre at his War of the Worlds, Invasion from Mars Broadcast on CBS; sent millions of Amerians into panic it was so believable. Or so they thought.
Orson Welles and Henry Jaglom in 1983, two years before Welles' death.
Divorce Bel Air Style. Robert Day, the billionaire Superior Oil heir and international investor, is divorcing his beautiful wife Kelly. The Days have been married for a number of years, and quite happily according to close friends.

Kelly and Robert Day.
But evidently Mr. Day, who is from one of the rich oil families of Los Angeles, the grandson of William Keck (who founded Superior Oil), a man who is now celebrating his 70th year, wants to go it alone.

This may be true but out in them thar hills there isn’t a stadium large enough to hold all the beautiful young things who wouldn’t mind being married to their very own Croesus, who is known to be very generous when it comes those rocks that shine like chandeliers. Plus he knows everybody everywhere and has a very interesting life.

Kelly, a classic Southern California beauty, is also a lovely person with lots of friends. I was told that Robert has bought her a Bel Air mansion of her very own, given her upwards of $250 million, and a brand new Bentley so she’ll enjoy the ride.

Forbes Magazine says that Mr. Day is worth around $1.4 billion but I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s just what he keeps in his checking. For emergencies. Good luck to two nice people.
Luncheon at Michaels: LuAnn de Lesseps, Nikki Haskell, Joan Collins, Kelly Day, and Debbie Loeffler.
 

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