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A view from a widow's walk in the village looking out toward the harbor in Nantucket, Sunday morning at 8:30. I was fascinated by the frequency of these widow's walks which now also serve as sundecks for many who don't live right on the beach. Photo: DPC. |
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Monday, August 12, 2013. A beautiful Sunday in New York. I went up to Nantucket for a long weekend to stay with my friend Joy Ingham who’s been a Nantucket summer resident for a long time. She once owned a house there, although she now prefers the luxury of renting. Nantucket is a luxury community, all the way. But that is always second, a far second, to the fact that Nantucket is a beautiful community on a beautiful island. We can thank our Creator (whoever it may or may not be for you) for that one. I’d been twice before for a day, a lunch. I’ve written about it on these pages. We had an advertising client who was a private jet service and the owner Adam Katz invited me and JH, and other media people, for a ride up to Nantucket and lunch and then back to New York. It’s not a long ride. It was an interesting trip. The point of it was to experience the luxury of your own private jet taking you there. I don’t have to tell you, what is obvious: it beats the bus, the train and let’s not forget the airport. My memory of those trips to Nantucket itself is almost blank. |
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My memory of this past weekend is rich. It’s such a beautiful place. You feel like you could just move in and stay. Those houses are all old. Or most of them. I grew up in a New England town, and it wasn’t as authentically “quaint” as Nantucket, but the vibe bore similarities to it, and similarities to a lot of New England communities of other eras. There is a neighborliness of sorts. Not entirely -- because our world is no longer available or accessible to neighborliness – cars, planes, cell phones, remote control – have all but destroyed it. But on this small island with its main village with the centuries’ old cobblestone streets and brick sidewalks, and so many of its original 18th and 19th century houses and other buildings, a lot of people can’t help saying hello to each other when passing on the sidewalk. And there are a lot of people walking. Joy Ingham likes living in the village because she can walk everywhere. And she knows some of her neighbors, and vice versa. |
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Yesterday morning, I walked (about five or seven minutes) down to a place called the Hub where you get the Sunday papers. I passed people on the street who said “Good morning.” There’s something to that that we’ve all deprived ourselves of nowadays. So that’s what you get in Nantucket. Now the other side of this is the irony. Although it still has much of the image, updated and restored and renovated, of course, of a fishing village of yore – Nantucket wears its frugal New England sensibility elegantly. That’s because of the rich. Make no mistake. This is what it is like to be rich and to live well, if you have the mind and the real sensibility for it. There are always many of the aforesaid who don't. I understand there are fantastic “estates” farther out along the beaches that are post-modern palaces of sorts and entirely separated from what I’m referring to. But I’ll bet even they come to town just to get some of the “old time” feeling, because that’s the real comfort zone for modern life. |
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This village is still standing so prosperously because 1. It reflects our heritage, and 2. It costs a fortune to keep up appearances. These beautiful Nantucket houses with their weathered shingles and saltair-eaten shingles and windowsills are preserved by community agreement. You can’t change them. You can only make them better. And better it is. Its summer residents come from all over the country. I flew up sitting next to a man from Colorado who spends his Augusts on Nantucket. I flew back (JetBlue both ways) alongside a man who is from Houston but spends his summers “like a hermit” on the beach. I could vote for that. Who could ask for anything more? I had no more conversation with either of the aforementioned, but I could make a good guess where they live without having been told. Some ideally quiet, simple, lovely little (or not so) house right in the village, or not far from, if not on, the ocean. However, the house(s) which most likely have been completely restored inside (and not touched except for maintenance on the outside – that’s the law), and might have cost two or three or four, or maybe none of the above, million, aren’t in the average homeowner’s budget. |
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There are lots of restaurants, and from what I could tell they were all doing business. There are sandwich shops where people line up and take numbers and wait good waits for their order because business is so brisk. There are cheeseburg joints and there are first class places. My first night there, Joy invited me to a restaurant called Languedoc which she refers to as the “Mortimers of Nantucket” where only a mobile phone number to owner Alan Cuhna can get you a table for its excellent cuisine. We were joined by Sis Chapin and old friend of Joy’s. Sis, who is now a very lithe and limber over eighty (and hits the gym three days a week, plus walks everywhere morning, noon and night), has been going to Nantucket since she was first married in her twenties. She now lives in Sonoma, California although her late husband Roy Chapin was the President of American Motors in its heyday and automotive swansong, and then she lived in Grosse Pointe. But at heart, she’s a villager when summer comes and you can tell that she can’t stay away. It’s in her bones and in her spirit. And a lot of her friends are here. Then Friday night we went to The Galley on the beach (don’t ask where). My half-brother Bob Flanagan who has been going to Nantucket since he was a very young boy had a summer job at The Galley as a kid, lo these many years ago. It’s still going not strong but stronger. |
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It is also traditional for a lot of islanders to go out in their boats and watch (and hear if the wind is on your side) the concert off in the distance. Many like this form of concert going because it is more relaxed. This year Joy and her friend Robin Kreitler (from Charlottesville Vuhginyuh — I couldn't resist, it's too pleasurable to hear) rented a boat called Shearwater, captained by Blair Perkins, and invited 31 friends to join them on a buffet trip to the concert. The Shearwater is a 47-foot catamaran that is used for whale watching expeditions. (for more info: go to explorenantucket.com). The food was provided by Michael Caffrey, owner of Island Chefs. |
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One morning, Joy and I drove out to visit Daisy Soros who lives in Siasconset (pronounced "Scon—set") overlooking the beach. I asked her what we were looking at. She replied: "Portugal." |
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Contact DPC here. |